Jonathan Peykar

Marketing, self-help, and everything in between

I enjoy writing about what I've learned while chasing my goals, even through depression, loneliness, and financial hardship.

A little 124-pages book reveals why dating advice is a lie, and what actually works for attracting women:

A Guy’s Guide To Mastering The Game: How To Pick Up, Date, and Attract Women Without Getting Lost In Online Advice

I was confused, anxious, and lost

Ten years.It took me ten years of painful, cold, gut-punching failure to succeed with women. I tested dozens of pickup and dating books just to realize it was all bullshit. The pickup lines, "attraction switches," the rules about when to text, how to act aloof, when to show interest and when to pull away.I followed all of it- and it backfired. It wasn't until I walked away from self-help- deleted the ebooks, threw away the notebooks, quit the communities- that things finally started to change. What followed was the best period of my life. I met new friends, tons of new women, and things finally clicked. This book encompasses everything I’ve learned throughout the process.And, in a way, I guess you could call it “my life’s work.”

Most online advice hurts your progress

There's more dating advice online than ever before.YouTube channels, Reddit threads, courses, coaches, podcasts. And yet most guys are more confused than ever. That's because most of it contradicts itself. One guy tells you to be direct while another tells you to play it cool. One says always pay on the first date, another says never. One says text her immediately. Another says wait a week. You end up overthinking every interaction and second-guessing every text. Wondering if you said the right thing, did the right move, followed the right rule.It's exhausting and it doesn't work.

I needed a new way of thinking and acting

This book is a straight account of what actually worked for me- and what didn't. No scripts. No routines. No rules about when to text her back. Just the core principles, mindsets, and real-life experiences that took me from completely lost to genuinely confident- with women and with myself.

What's inside

  • The one belief every man who succeeds with women shares — and why you can adopt it starting today, regardless of your looks, income, or experience. (Page 19)

  • How to keep a conversation alive with any woman, anywhere — even when you feel like you've run out of things to say. (Page 65)

  • How to approach a woman in a bar, keep her engaged, and get her number — without using a single pickup line or rehearsed technique. (Page 49)

  • The reason why trying to be more attractive actually pushes women away — and the one thing that works instead

  • How to handle rejection in a way that actually makes you less needy over time — and why the men who get the most women have been rejected the most. (Page 41)

  • The screening technique that tells you within minutes whether a woman is emotionally available — so you stop wasting time on women who aren't. (Page 56)

  • The little-known reason why going out alone might be the single fastest way to build confidence with women. (Page 119)

  • What six real-life pickups reveal about what actually works when taking a woman home — and the one thing every single one of them had in common. (Page 92)

  • Why the direct approach backfires with most women — and the subtle, indirect method that works almost every time without putting all your cards on the table. (Page 58)

  • How to measure your actual progress with women — using one surprisingly simple metric that has nothing to do with phone numbers or dates. (Page 116)

  • The myth that's convinced an entire generation of men to act aloof, play hard to get, and wait days to text back — and why it's costing them everything.

  • The "comfort first" principle used by men who consistently get women — even when they're not the best looking or wealthiest guy in the room. (Page 22)

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The book is a PDF and costs $20

A 124-page guide covering everything from the core mindsets of men who succeed with women, to real-life pickup stories, to how to build the kind of life that makes all of this easier.